Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Benjamin King with the following comment:
Distantly related. She died in Baghdad 10 Aug 1899. Married to Rev Joseph Thomas Parfit. He wrote several books on his time in Iraq (see Amazon). He married again in 1902 and died in 1953 Wantage, Berkshire. If you send me the image I would like to add it to my Public Tree on Ancestry. Please say if this is a problem.